Category Archives: Direct Answers

Direct Answers – Weekly Relationship Advice Column

Direct Answers – Lifting The Fog

Lifting The Fog

I have a problem that is probably all my own doing though I think it is largely caused by my family. I have a stable job, a good income, no major debts, and my wife looks after the house. I am unhappy, even resentful, my wife has made no effort to find even a...
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Direct Answers – Happy Ending

Happy Ending

After 25 years of marriage, I found out my husband was cheating on me with an employee at our company. I was overwhelmed with fear, hurt beyond words and confused as to what to do next. (more…)...
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Direct Answers – Residual Burn

Residual Burn

Guys, if you can kindly offer a word or two, I'm grateful. You see, I can't get my ex out of my head. I think about him every waking moment, but they're not pleasant thoughts. They're memories that leave me with an explosion of anger and anxiety...every time. Read more

Direct Answers – Irreconcilable Differences

Irreconcilable Differences

I don't know where to start. I'm meant to be getting married in six days. My fiancé and I have been together three years, and in that time we've only had sex twice. Yes, twice. Despite this, he cheated on me a year ago. He says it was a moment of madness and he...
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Direct Answers – The Simple Truth

The Simple Truth

Should I tell my children about my wife's affair? Here's the situation: We are in our 40s with two sons, 11 and 12. My wife  is in an affair with a married man, likely a coworker. They were meeting in our house and I found out last month. She admitted it. Read more

Direct Answers – Steadfast

Steadfast

When I met my first love, he was going through financial problems, and I helped him stand on his feet again. We were much in love and wanted to get married and have a family. However, I had to call it off. (more…)...
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