Romance 101: How To Show Her You Love Her


35 tried and true tips to show her just how much you really love her.

1. Learn a few love words in another language, like I love you and recite it to her:

  • I love you (English)
  • Je vous aime (French)
  • Ich liebe Sie (German)
  • Ti amo (Italian)
  • Eu amo-o (Portuguese)
  • Le amo (Spanish)

2. Good old fashioned courtesy, hold open the door for her. That includes the car door!

3. Leave little love notes, hide them for her to find.

4. Give her a massage. Pay special attention to her feet and hands. Want some massage oil recipes you can make yourself? Click here >>

5. Offer to brush her hair. Believe it or not, it is very soothing and sensual.

6. Run a warm bubble bath & light a few candles. Bubble bath recipes >>

7. Send her a single red or white rose. (see flower meanings)

8. Take her out to dinner. Even more romantic is a lakeside picnic.

9. Don’t forget to listen to her, I mean really listen. Ask her thoughts, dreams, goals or just about how her day was.

10. Sing to her. It doesn’t matter if you can sing or not….just hearing her favorite song from the man she loves is worth gold.

11. If you are away at work etc, call her to say you’re thinking of her.

12. Write her a love letter and mail it to her.

13. Dedicate a song on the radio for her, don’t forget to tell her to listen that day!

14. Read her some poetry.

15. Write her some poetry expressing your feelings for her.

16. Sip some wine together and just cuddle.

17. Paint her toe nails.

18. Give her cute pet names. Makes her feel special.

19. Make her feel like she is what you live for.

20. Buy or grow her a plant….perhaps her favorite flower.

21. Cook her a meal. Breakfast in bed is always a wonderful treat.

22. Dedicate some time just for her (without distractions)…not with other company, phone calls etc.

23. Send her cards…either by snail mail or email or both!

24. Know her favorite treats and get her some.

25. Buy her the Cd with your song on it.

26. Give her chocolate…chocolate and more chocolate or make some. (Chocolate Dipped Fruit,   Gourmet Chocolates)

27. Take her on a nature walk where it’s just the two of you.

28. Carry her photo with you.

29. Tell her you love her as much as possible.

30. Know what upsets her, know what makes her happy.

31. Tell her she looks great!

32. Watch 1 romantic movie at least once a month with your gal. Extra points if you go get the movie you know she wanted to see.

33. Go dancing. Slow dancing is a great way to be close.

34. More than anything….be her best friend.

35. And last but not least. DO NOT wrap yourself in Saran wrap and wait for her at the door. lol

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50 Responses to Romance 101: How To Show Her You Love Her

  1. jack says:

    guys please help me anyone who knows about this subject
    am in love with my bestfriends for 9 years what should i do ,i cant tell her because a afraid that shes gonna leave.

  2. jason says:

    is it ok if i wait for the girl to approach me?

  3. Alanis says:

    Just to let you know, “TI AMO” is the correct spelling for Italian.

  4. Oscar Rayo says:

    So I’m guessing you wrapped yourself in Saran paper and the outcome was not at all what you hoped for. LOL!!

  5. gclub says:

    A relationship is exciting! You want to immediately jump in and have a joint calendar, maybe some cute relationship hashtags, take personality surveys together, get matching tattoos… but slow down there (especially on the tattoos!)! That excitement is great

  6. sbobet says:

    f you want real love, you have to go get it – just not the traditional way. You do that by learning the kind of man that you want and becoming the kind of woman you will be for him in that relationship. In relationships, we are in reciprocal process. So it’s not just about creating a list of someone with all of the qualities that you want without investing in and creating who you will become.

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