Romance 101: How to Show Her You Love Her


35 tried and true tips to show her just how much you really love her.

1. Learn a few love words in another language, like I love you and recite it to her:

  • I love you (English)
  • Je vous aime (French)
  • Ich liebe Sie (German)
  • Li amo (Italian)
  • Eu amo-o (Portuguese)
  • Le amo (Spanish)

2. Good old fashioned courtesy, hold open the door for her. That includes the car door!

3. Leave little love notes, hide them for her to find.

4. Give her a massage. Pay special attention to her feet and hands. Want some massage oil recipes you can make yourself? Click here >>

5. Offer to brush her hair. Believe it or not, it is very soothing and sensual.

6. Run a warm bubble bath & light a few candles. Bubble bath recipes >>

7. Send her a single red or white rose. (see flower meanings)

Have a romantic picnic. Photo. Taryn Elliott

8. Take her out to dinner. Even more romantic is a lakeside picnic.

9. Don’t forget to listen to her, I mean really listen. Ask her thoughts, dreams, goals or just about how her day was.

10. Sing to her. It doesn’t matter if you can sing or not….just hearing her favorite song from the man she loves is worth gold.

11. If you are away at work etc, call her to say you’re thinking of her.

Mail a letter to your sweetheart. Photo. John-Mark Smith

12. Write her a love letter and mail it to her.

13. Dedicate a song on the radio for her, don’t forget to tell her to listen that day!

14. Read her some poetry.

15. Write her some poetry expressing your feelings for her.

16. Sip some wine together and just cuddle.

17. Paint her toe nails.

18. Give her cute pet names. Makes her feel special.

19. Make her feel like she is what you live for.

20. Buy or grow her a plant….perhaps her favorite flower.

21. Cook her a meal. Breakfast in bed is always a wonderful treat.

22. Dedicate some time just for her (without distractions)…not with other company, phone calls etc.

23. Send her cards…either by snail mail or email or both!

24. Know her favorite treats and get her some.

25. Buy her the Cd with your song on it.

26. Give her chocolate…chocolate and more chocolate or make some. (Chocolate Dipped Fruit,   Gourmet Chocolates)

27. Take her on a nature walk where it’s just the two of you.

28. Carry her photo with you.

29. Tell her you love her as much as possible. (women LOVE to hear that!)

30. Know what upsets her, know what makes her happy.

31. Tell her she looks great!

Snuggle up and watch a good movie. Photo. Pixabay

32. Watch 1 romantic movie at least once a month with your gal. Extra points if you go get the movie you know she wanted to see.

33. Go dancing. Slow dancing is a great way to be close.

34. More than anything….be her best friend.

35. And last but not least. DO NOT wrap yourself in Saran wrap and wait for her at the door. lol

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54 thoughts on “Romance 101: How to Show Her You Love Her

  1. This really didn’t answer my question I am unable to show my gf that I love her so much and if I don’t I’m going to lose her please tell me how to show her I love her without gifts please help I don’t wanna lose her please

  2. Step 1: Stop being a bitch
    Step 2: Say “I love and respect you for who you are, I’m willing to be there every step of the way and that should be enough”
    Step 3: If she leaves then she wasn’t the one , good luck (:

  3. Ok all you have to do is say you love her every night with me and my girlfriend I call her every night to say I love her and I tell her how pretty she is and since we don’t go to the same school we see each other every weekend and its always special you don’t have to buy her anything (that’s always a bonus) but all you have to do is make sure she knows you love her and whenever you see her hug her and give her a kiss and call her beautiful.

  4. Keep writing her love letters drawing what she likes,organise some picnic,always tell her how beautiful she looks.

  5. Well, I just told her I love her in 6 different languages and she asked “What the f*** are you on”… so that one’s out

  6. well i had some things happen that cause me to lose focus on the girl i love so. i broke up with her and now i am currently trying my hardest to mend the wounds i put on her broken heart. i love her more than anything and i would lay my life down to prove it her. every song and every cloud and star makes me think of her. i continuously send her long messages from my heart and she tells me she knows i love her and she tells me she love me back but something deep down concerns my heart. I wanna be her love again. id walk the earth sail the seas and climb the highest mountain just to see her smile. id go to hell and back to show her my love. Im lost for words now and still feel i should keep proving and showing her that i love her. Where or what do i do next? i bought a ring the other day and lord knows i have prayed and prayed and begged god to let her say yes. i just want her to know that i will never stop loving her. even if it takes me waiting at heavens gates to show her. i will wait as long as it takes.

  7. I know my girl still loves me a lot, but nowadays she refused to talk with me because in between am quite busy in my works, I don’t know how to prove my love!

  8. Hello my name is richard.

    I am in love with my best friend kelly, have been for years. When i got back from the military i got a job and he just happened to be working there. Well iv been spending as much time with her as i can outside of work. Iv told her i like her but i didnt want to say love cuz for some reason i felt a little uneasy about it. Well when her sister found i was back she came over and we went to dinner as we always did as friends back in school. During our conversation she says so how do i feel about how the guy that my kelly is married to and how kelly hasent been happy in years with him. I took it as a shock, kelly and i have never done anything but at the same time i always wished she was mine and i was hers. I know kelly and as long as shes married she will never cheat nor do i want her to, but she will also never get a devorice (not sure if spelled right). I still want to tell her i love her but i dont want to say it in words so i dont make her question her beliefs about marriage.

    Plz guys i need some help, shes always ment the world to me. I saved myself for her cuz iv always loved her since i first met her back in jh.

    1. you shouldnt have delayed!
      I was in the same plight as u two weeks ago, yeah with my best friend, 4 days ago, I wrote her a note in her pencil case telling her I love her, as soon as she found that, she called me to ask if I meant that…and I said yes, I feel attractions towards you, so y dont we try it out.
      its been 3 days now! and we love each other like crazy!!!
      if she was meant for you, u will get her,
      if not then nothing bro
      in both case, move on without doing anything to hurt her…somewhere, all souls were meant, its just that itwasnt the right time for u 2 to blend…
      move on…

    1. Find that her parent love which type of boy and be….find her parent favorate ..things..and be that things in yours..

  9. I have a girlfriend I have been with her for more done three years but she cheating on me but I still love her…now what can I do….?

    1. You know love is heart feeling so if you love her really if she cheated you make it like nothing happen will proud you with time. Thanks

    1. yes mario .all above tips is for that who both which have a very good friendship… .not for that who want to impress ..any girl who only even talk to any boy..

  10. I have a GF. She loves me and i love her. We’ve been dating for nine months but we never had sex or kisses
    Now her friends told her that I don’t love her. My GF told me to prove my love. We’re still in school. What will I do?

    1. Hey cammon if you love her for kises and sex that go and find a prostitute
      And if you really love her don’t ever leave her alone even if she slaps you always follow her because she is in your heart and you have to protect her whatever the condition may be…..

  11. I’m in love with dis girl name Courtney for abt 3yrs 4months and some days nw have been tel her that I love her God knows I love her with all my body my soul everything about me I love her have try pleasing her in my own little way buh all are just xo invain please brodas/sistaz I rilly nid sum1 2help me talk 2her 4me plz plz plz plz plz pllz!!!!!!!! I love her jxt xo desperately

  12. so its this girl, her name is valentine and i love her..She is very beautifull and nice.She made me a nice person.My school has been like hell, so i had to be tough if i wanted to survive, i was always looking for a fight and had no respect for any other that i did not consider to be on my level, she took me from that shape and made me a good, carring person that respects everybody and even stand up and help people that have been bulied.I was a complete jerk and loser and she found me on a period that i was lonely and tired of being me..I only had silly girlfriends that didnt have that characters depth, they were all vert shallow and i got tired from that, i was alone and depressed, i tried to kill my self twice, but i failed. She is the greatest person i know and i love her.. <3

  13. i am in love with this gal her name is keneilwe so its been 1 year 2 month dating so i dont believe her because she always tell me lies even if its truth i dont knw wherether its true or lie pls help

  14. my name is raymond,me and my girlfriend were dating for over five years we been through hell cos our parent dont want it but we never quite.we had sex for about twenty times. she dont talk to her daddy because of me.i dont it gotten to a time when i feel like i don’t need her any longer i started talking to her anyhow.she wept almost everyday..she has gone back to apologize to her daddy..i realy my foolishess i called i apologize to she said she has forgiven bat she no longer have time for me like previously..hmmm i
    really want my girl back i love her i have regreted every bit of my foolishness i ll never hurt her again..somebody help me i wnt my love back..

  15. hey I have been dating this girl for a little while now and we have a really good relationship but recently I have been felling like I am losing her slowly and I don’t want that she is the love of my life I tried to kill myself but failed then she came into my life and helped me become a better more caring person I love her a lot but if I am losing her ……..

    what do I do plz help me anyone

    1. also we r still in middle school getting ready to be in high school we r u 8th grade and she is really shy and quiet.

      1. Chill, I promise you life is not worth stressing about a girl in middle school. You won’t know what love means or how it feels till later in your life. Life is like a fart, if you have to force it, it’s probably shit.

  16. am in love wit my girl but suddenly anoda guy is sending her bad mssg concering me so dat she can leave me.pls wot can i do?.

  17. I said my love to her.. ..But she is not telling that i don’t like you… Or love you….. Etc.. .
    She is saying that u have to wait.. ..after wards i will give a rply… ..
    What can i do.. ..any help.. ..plss. s.. …?

    1. It might sometimes happen that, you are easy tempered and she just treating you with a little one thing just kidding with you then you take it personally. Take from me that she Love’s you very much.

  18. f you want real love, you have to go get it – just not the traditional way. You do that by learning the kind of man that you want and becoming the kind of woman you will be for him in that relationship. In relationships, we are in reciprocal process. So it’s not just about creating a list of someone with all of the qualities that you want without investing in and creating who you will become.

  19. A relationship is exciting! You want to immediately jump in and have a joint calendar, maybe some cute relationship hashtags, take personality surveys together, get matching tattoos… but slow down there (especially on the tattoos!)! That excitement is great

  20. guys please help me anyone who knows about this subject
    am in love with my best friends for 9 years what should i do ,i cant tell her because a afraid that shes gonna leave.

  21. I think this post is the best solution for all love birds. I personally like it very much. I want you to add expression of love via quotes into the list. Thanks.

  22. In reply to jack.

    Just tell her how you feel. Be honest. If she doesn’t feel the same way, move on with your life. Trust me, you will both be better off.

  23. I like the helpful info you provide in your posts. I will bookmark your site and check again here frequently. I’m quite sure I’ll learn many new stuff right here! Good luck for the next!

  24. Such a useful thing you are sharing because everyone wants to make their love special. It is really that way which makes your soulmate proud.

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